Only when you know how to love will you be a real man in this world.

A.as B.for C.to D.beyond E.out

Love to us human is what water _____1 fish.Love shines the most beautiful light of humanity.We were born in it and we live by it.We should cherish love,but too often we take it_____2granted.How to cherish the love？I have heard a saying:the quickest way to receive love is to giveit;the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly;the best way to keep love is to give it wings.

When you are young,you may want several love experiences.But _____3 time goes on,you willrealize that if you really love someone,the whole life will not be enough.You need time to know,to forgive and to love.It is important for us to learn to love as the first class in our life.Only whenyou know how to love will you be a real man in this world.Love brings us bright when life gets hard and dark.Love brings us confidence toward life when we are tired _____4 and want to give up.Love deserves all the admiring words,and love is even _____5 the life and death.That is what love is all about in my eyes.

A.if

B.when

C.how

D.why

the money we have, what we can’t buy because we don’t have enough and what we’re planning to buy when we have more. We discuss the careers that bring us money and the expenses that take it away. We talk about our favourite shops and restaurants, the causes we support, the places we’ve been and seen. We share dreams that only money can make real.

In short, we talk about everything but money itself. In daily life, money is still a major conversational taboo. This is a shame, because money is as interesting as the things it does and buys, and the more you know about it, the more interesting it is.

As a financial advisor, I’ve seen hundreds of people learn to control their money instead of letting it control them and watched as they increased as they increased their freedom, power and security by handling money consciously. Wouldn’t you like to know that you’ll always have enough money to live exactly as you want to？

You will never be powerful in life until you ’re powerful over your own money. Talking openly about it is the first step.

Which of the following is NOT discussed when we talk about money？

A.The careers that bring us money

B.The causes we support

C.The dreams that only money can make real

D.Money itself

What can we know from the second paragraph？A.We should know more about money itself rather than avoid talking about it.

B.Money itself can interest us and bring us happiness.

C.The more money we earn, the more we should know about it.

D.It is a shame that people talk too much about money.

What does the writer want to say in the third paragraph？A.People should learn how to make money.

B.People should know the value of money.

C.People should learn to control their money.

D.People should know how to use money to increase their power.

The writer’s advice that _____.A.the more you talk about money, the more you can control it.

B.we should learn to be a good master of our money if we want to be powerful in life

C.we should not be so worried about money if we want to have a free life

D.the more money you have, the more powerful you are

What will the writer probably talk about after the last paragraph？A.The importance of money

B.Money, power and security

C.The other steps for people to control money

D.The steps for people to make money

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is often difficult to determine, for there are no set rides surrounding the definitions of love or infatuation. Roman tie love is very much a part of the American way of life and many expect that some day "it" is going to hit them and they will know they are in love.

What are some of the differences between love and infatuation？

1. Genuine love is more likely to involve a process of "growing" in love rather than "falling" in love. This may sound terribly unromantic to some who are used to hearing talk about "falling in love" or being "head over heels in love." This "falling" is often infatuation, and the sheer emotion of "falling" in love often blinds a person to the imperfections of the loved one. We tend to think of the loved one as "perfect", "ideal", or some other divine image. Real love sees the total person—both the "perfection" and the imperfection. Infatuation, then, is a sudden, emotional sense that one has discovered the "perfect" lover. On the other hand, love realizes imperfections and grows with he acceptance of those imperfections.

2. Love leads a person to a feeling of security and trust in the loved lone. It usually involves a feeling of mutual benefit arising from the new relationship. "We are able to solve our problems together" is the feeling of love, rather than "Please love me because I need you."

3. Infatuation often entails feelings of insecurity whenever the "lovers" are separated; feelings of doubt, fickleness, uncertainty, and fear of loss often accompany infatuation. "What will I do if I lose him？" and "I wonder of she really means it when she says she loves me？" express the feelings of infatuation. In such a setting a lasting love does not have a chance to develop.

4.Infatuation tends to be more manipulative than love because a lasting feeling of relationship probably has not developed, so that the individuals are still concerned mainly about their own needs and satisfactions. Conversely, in love, the feeling of relationship is genuine and sincere so that concern for the other person evolves naturally.

5. Physical attraction is an important part of both infatuation and love, but the superficial attraction is less important in love, for the couple experiencing love usually will build their relationship on a broader base than mere physical attraction.

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HABITS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATORS

It's no secret that good leaders are also good communicators. Indeed, communication and leadership are inextricably tied. How can you galvanize, inspire or guide others if you don't communicate in a clear, credible and authentic way？ Here are 5 essential communication practices of effective leaders:

1. Mind the say-do gap. Trust is the bedrock of effective leadership – your behavior. is your single greatest mode of communication, and it must be congruent with what you say. If your actions don't align with your words, you are storing up trouble for the future.

2. Make the complex simple. Effective leaders distill complex thoughts and strategies into simple, memorable terms that colleagues and customers can grasp and act upon. The most important thing is to clarify what you want to say, look out for technical jargon and avoid business speak, which add complexity. Say what you mean in as few words as possible.

3. Find your own voice. Use language that's distinctly your own; let your values come through in your communication. Correct use of language and grammar are important, of course, but don't become overly fixated on eloquence for eloquence's sake; concentrate on being distinct and real. People want real, people respect real, people follow real.

4. Be visible Visibility is about letting your key stakeholders get a feel for who you are and what you care about. Don't hide behind a computer and only interact with people electronically – see them face to face and voice to voice, and interact with them in a real, substantial way. In today's environment, where people are often burned out, it's important for employees to have a personal connection with you and the work you believe in. Show the people that work for you that you're engaged and that you care about them and their work.

5. Listen with your eyes as well as your ears. Effective communication is a two-way process, and good leaders know how to ask good questions, and then listen with both their eyes and their ears. Because you are in a position of authority, others may be reluctant to express their real opinions to you directly. You won't always get direct feedback, so you need to also be able to read between the lines and look for the non-verbal cues.

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1. Communication and leadership don't always go hand in hand.{T; F}

2. The say-do gap happens when people misunderstand their leader's intention.{T; F}

3. Using technical jargon makes a leader convincing.{T; F}

4. Communicating sincerely is always the best.{T; F}

5. Observation is as important as communication when you want to know what people really think.{T; F}

follow. Let me tell you that nothing is further from the truth. The world is full of very rich people who are as miserable as if they were living in hell. We have read stories about movie stars who committed suicide or died from drugs. Quite clearly, money is not the only answer to all problems. Wealth obtained through dishonest means does not bring happiness. Lottery winnings do not bring happiness. Gambling winnings do not bring happiness. To my mind, the secret to happiness lies in your successful work, in your contribution towards others’ happiness and in your wealth you have earned through your own honest effort. If you obtain wealth through luck or dishonest means, you will know that it is ill-earned money. If you get your money by taking advantage of others or by hurting others, you will not be happy with it. You will think you are a base person. Long-term happiness is based on honesty, productive work, contribution, and self-esteem. Happiness is not an end; it is a process. It is a continuous process of honest, productive work which makes a real contribution to others and makes you feel you are a useful, worthy person. As Dr. Wayne wrote, “There is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way.” There is no use saying “Someday when I achieve these goals, when I get a car, build a house and own my own business, then I will be really happy.” Life just does not work that way. If you wait for certain things to happen and depend on external circumstances of life to make you happy, you will always feel unfulfilled. There will always be something missing.

1.What does “nothing is further from the truth” mean？

A、 Something. is completely untrue.

B、 Something is completely true.

C、 We can find out the truth.

D、 We cannot find out the truth.

2.What are the secrets to happiness in the author’s mind？

A、 successful work

B、 contribution to other’happiness

C、 honest effort

D、 all of the above.

3.Which of the following is not dishonest means for wealth？

A、 lottery winning

B、 gambling winnings

C、 hard work

D、 taking advantage of others

4.What does the sentence “There is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way.” mean according to the passage？

A、 Happiness is not an end; it is a process.

B、 People do not know how to get happiness.

C、 It is hard to get happiness.

D、 Happiness is what you feel.

5.What is the meaning of the word “unfulfilled”？

A、 uncontrolable

B、 impolite

C、 dissatisfied

D、 abnormal

W: Charles, among other things, you regarded as one of the America’sgreat masters of the blues. A musical idiom does essentially about loss,particularly the loss of romantic love. Why does love die？

M: People often get into love affairs because they have unrealisticexpectations about somebody. Then when the person doesn’t turn out to be whothey thought he or she was, they start thinking maybe I can change him or her.That kind of thinking is a mistake. Because when the dust settles, people aregoing to be pretty much what they are. It’s a rare thing for anybody to be ableto change who they really are. And this creates a lot of problems.

W: At 62, you continue to spend a large percentage of your lifetouring. What appeals to you about life on the road？

M: Music, I don’t especially love life on the road, but I figure if youare lucky enough to be able to do what you truly love doing, you’ve got theultimate of life.

W: What’s the most widely-held misconception about the life of a famousmusician？

M: People think it’s all glamour. Actually we have the same troublesthey do. Playing music doesn’t mean life treats you any better.

W: How do you feel about being recognized everywhere you go？

M: You think I be used to it by now. But I still find it fascinating.You go to a little town in Japan, where nobody speaks English, yet they knowyou on side and know all your music. I’m still amazed by the love peopleexpress for me and by music.

Q12: What does the man sayabout most people when they get into love affairs？

Q13: What does the man sayabout himself as a singer on the road most of his life？

Q14: What do most peoplethink of the life of a famous musician？

Q15: How does the man feelwhenever he was recognized by his fans？

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Some people make you feel comfortable when they are around．These people have somethingin common．And once we know what it is we can try to do it ourselves．

How is it done？ Here are several skills that good talkers have．If you follow the skills, they&39; llhelp you put people at their ease, and make friends with them quickly．

First of all, good talkers ask questions．Almost anyone, no matter how shy he is, will answera question．And how he answers will let you know how far you can go．

Second, once good talkers have asked questions, they listen to the answers．And to find outwhat sort of person you are talking to, you really have to listen carefully and attentively．

Real listening at least means some things．First it means not to change the subject of the con-versation．Real listening also means not just listening to words but to tones of voice．If the voicesounds dull, then, it&39; s time for you to change the subject．

Finally, good talkers know well now to deal with the occasion of parting．If you want to seethat person again, don&39; t keep it a secret．Let people know what you feel, and they may walk awayfeeling as if they&39; ve known you half their life．

Asking questions might be a quite good and suitable way __________． 查看材料

A.for you to make more and more new friends

B.to begin your business talks

C.to get the conversation going smoothly

D.for you to make a deep and lasting impression on others

rle by e-mail and sheaccepted through her computer keyboard in suburban Maryland. He immigrated tothe United States from the Netherlands on a fiancé() visa and, after a private ceremonybefore a justice of the peace, they started to get to know one another. Despitethe fact that they had been in steady communication for months — exploring eachothers likes and dislikes and becoming intimate enough to marry —when theyfinally met face to face at a Baltimore airport, they had a lot more exploringand adjusting to do. Its not that Henk and Sher were being deceptive(骗) — the opposite, in fact.There are those cases where people mask their true identity online to playpsychological games, but these two were trying to represent themselves faithfully.The question that their relationship raises is: How authentically(，) can people representthemselves through e-mail？

Expert opinion varies. Some arguethat as with any written communication — love letters, for example —e-mail is verythoughtful; a lot of time is put into accurately encoding feelings on the oneend and carefully reading on the other. But love letters usually are exchangedafter a relationship has had some time to ripen(). In terms of initiating andcarrying on a relationship online, says psychiatrist Esther Gwinnell, “E-mailis totally devoid of social cues(). It lacks facial movement, body language, evendress or handwriting. You can learn more from two minutes at a party than frommonths of e-mail communication.” This isnt necessarily a bad thing, but itrequires a lot of care to avoid disappointment later.

Some people experiment with theiridentity online, both deliberately and unconsciously. Its not uncommon, forinstance, for someone with an introverted personality() to be bolder online,or for people to be more playful than they normally would be face to face. MITsociologist Sherry Turkle, author of Life on the Screen, sees suchexploration as positive, an opportunity for personal growth. Indeed, she arguesthat the old notion of a real self and a virtual self is becoming outmoded() in our increasinglywired()world.

31. Why should Henkand Sher start to get to know one another only after they got engaged？

A. Because they wanted to explore each other' s likes and dislikes.

B. Because they would keep steady communication with each other.

C. Because they tried to become intimate enough to be husband and wife.

D. Because they needed to understand and adjust to each other in real life.

32.How did Henk and Sher develop their romance？

A. They courted online with their true identity.

B. They played psychological games on line.

C. They often went out on dates in person.

D. They exchanged love letters frequently by post.

33.Which of the following is true about Gwinnells words？

A. People can transfer personal feelings by e-mail as well as by post.

B. E-mail can convey emotional differences, like letter writing.

C. E-mail lacks social cues in initiating and carrying on a relationshiponline.

D. Peoplecan only enhance their personal 'relationship slowly in e-mail exchange withoutface-to-face feedback.

34. How does SherryTurkle think about peoples on-line experiment with their identity？ .

A. It helps some people with introverted personalities to be bolder.

B. It makes people become more playful than in their normal life.

C. It enables people to forget the old notion of a real self and a virtualself.

D. It provides people with a kind of opportunity for their personaldevelopment.

35.What can you infer from the whole passage？

A. People are likelyto be deceived on the line since most people will mask their true identity.

B. Wecall believe the reliability of on-line relationship as most people would representthemselves faithfully.

C. It isdifficult to develop human relationship through e-mail communication for lackof facial expressions and body language.

D. Peoplestill have different opinions on the function of e-mail communication indeveloping human relationship.

“You’re trying to control my life,” says my nine-year-old son. (我9岁的儿子说：“你在试着控制我的生活，”)“I don’t know why you think you can do that, but you can’t.” I received this bit of information after I asked Gabriele to put his dirty socks in the basket. And I get no sympathy from my mother, who says,“You let him have his way from the beginning.”

It’s true. I have always asked Gabriele’s opinion, found out how he felt about things - treated him as my peer, not my child. And what have I got from my troubles？ A lot of back talk. At least I’m not alone; it’s a complaint heard among parents across the country.

It’s not just that we’re confused by the contradictory advice offered in parenting books. The fact is, in an effort to break away from how we were raised - to try something more liberal than our parents’ “do it because I say so”approach - our generationhas gone too far. “Today’s parents want to be young, so they try to be friends with their children,”says Kathy Lynn, a parenting educator.

“When it comes to discipline, our society has gone from one extreme to the other,”says Ron Moorish, a behavior. specialist. “We used to use the strap, to intimidate. Then we had permissiveness, and now it’s about giving children choices and allowing them to learn from their own experiences.”

Real discipline, says Moorish, is about teaching. “By correcting our children when they do something wrong, we teach them how to behave properly,”he says. But this only works, he emphasizes, if parents regain their position of authority. Children will always be children. The key is for parents to choose to take the time to guide and teach their kids.

Rita Munday, a mother of four children, couldn’t believe the dramas that played out in the children’s shoe store she operated. She often saw children insist on having the high-priced, brand-name shoes. And even when the mother didn’t want to spend the money, she would give in when the kid started acting up and throwing shoes around.

Rhonda Radice, Munday’s younger colleague, is one parent who has bucked the trend and is proud of it. “I don’t negotiate with them. You can’t. I’ve seen parents come into the store and bribe their children to behave. You shouldn’t have to buy love and respect.”

1.The author’s way of treating her son ____________.

A.is shared by many parents

B.is encouraged by her mother

C.proves to be quite successful

D.shows little concern for the child

2.It can be inferred from the passage that __________.

A.parents should learn to make friends with their children

B.parents need to follow the advice of parenting books

C.today’s children enjoy more freedom than the previous generation

D.today’s parents are better at raising children than the previous generation

3.According to the passage, to have “discipline”means that parents should ___________.

A.adopt the “do it because I say so”approach

B.teach their children to understand the rules

C.negotiate with their children for a decision

D.never allow their children to have their ways

4.If Ronda Radice is the parent who has “bucked the trend”, which of the following can also be cited as the example for “bucking the trend”？

A.Parents buy whatever their children want.

B.Parents treat their children as their equals.

C.Parents make decisions for their children.

D.Parents maintain authority over their children.

5.The main point of the passage is to __________.

A.compare different ways of raising children

B.analyze the problems faced by today’s parents

C.explain the importance of understanding children

D.point out the mistakes made by the older generation