While you are saying “You must do it”, you hit the table with your fist.This means tha

A.Dry and factual

B.Humorous and witty

C.Lucid and matter-of-fact

D.aggressive

Manners (礼貌) are much more than just saying“Please” and “Thank you”. They are ways of showing kindness.

My husband，Bob，is a pilot，and one day we were invited to a potluck (百味餐) at his flying squadron(飞行中队). The noisy room was filled with mouthy kids and their chatting moms and dads. Our son，Daniel, was only two years old. We let him play with the other kids because it was a safe environment.

After a while，he came back with a package of peanut butter crackers and proudly held them out to us. A pilot who asked “Do you know whose this little boy is？”followed him.

“He is mine,” I answered, wondering what Daniel might have done.

“Well,” replied the pilot, “I've been passing out crackers to the kids for almost two hours，and your son is one of the youngest guys I gave them to. He's the only one who said 'Thank you'. What he did makes me pleased.”

Daniel smiled and proudly repeated，“Thank you.”

1)、Pilots and their family were invited to the potluck.

A.T

B.F

2)、Daniel felt very excited when he showed his crackers to his parents.

A.T

B.F

3)、For nearly two hours at least, the pilot served at the party when he found Daniel.

A.T

B.F

4)、Only one kid said “Thank you” to the man when he gave the kids crackers.

A.T

B.F

5)、The pilot felt surprised when he heard the boy said “Thank you”.

A.T

B.F

You might not realize a closed position is the cause of many conversational problems. A common closed position is sitting with your arms and legs crossed and your hand covering your mouth or chin. This is often called the "thinking pose". Ask yourself this question: Are you going to interrupt someone who appears to be deep in thought？ This position gives off "stay away" signs and prevents your main "sign sender" (your mouth) from being seen by others looking for inviting conversational signs.

The open body position is most effective when you place yourself within communicating distance of the other person—that is, within about five feet. Take care, however, not to enter someone's "personal space" by getting too close, too soon.

Leaning forward a little while a person is talking shows your interest and how you are listening to what the person is saying. By doing this, you are saying: I hear what you're saying, and I'm interested in—keep talking!

Often people will lean back with their hands over their mouth, chin, or behind their head in the "thinking" pose. This position gives off signs of judgment, doubt, and lack of interest from the listener. Since most people do not feel comfortable when they think they are being judged, this leaning-back position serves to prevent the speaker from continuing.

In many cultures the most common form. of first contact between two people is a handshake. Be the first to extend your hand in greeting. Couple this with a friendly "Hello", a nice smile, and your name and you have made the first step to open the lines of communication.

Eye contact should be natural, not forced or overdone. Direct eye contact shows you are listening to the other person and that you want to know about her.

A person smiles to show______.

A．he is kind and useful

B．he is happy all the time

C．he is ready to talk with you

D．he sees something funny

回答题。

A smile is a strong sign of a friendly and open attitude and a willingness to communicate．It isa positive, silent sign sent with the hope the other person will smile back．When you smile, youshow you have noticed the person in a positive way．The result？ That person will usually smile back．

You might not realize a closed position is the cause of many conversational problems．A com-mon closed position is sitting with your arms and legs crossed and your hand covering your mouth orchin．This is often called the "thinking pose"．Ask yourself this question: Are you going to interruptsomeone who appears to be deep in thought？ This position gives off "stay away" signs and preventsyour main "sign sender" (your mouth) from being seen by others looking for inviting conversational

signs．

The open body position is most effective when you place yourself within communicating dis-tance of the other person--that is, within about five feet．Take care, however, not to entersomeone&39;s "personal space" by getting too close, too soon．

Leaning forward a little while a person is talking shows your interest and how you are listeningto what the person is saying．By doing this, you are saying: I hear what you&39;re saying, and I&39;m in-terested in--keep talking!

Often people will lean back with their hands over their mouth, chin, or behind their head in the"thinking" pose．This position gives off signs of judgment, doubt, and lack of interest from the lis-tener．Since most people do not feel comfortable when they think they are being judged, this lean-ing-back position serves to prevent the speaker from continuing．

In many cultures the most common form. of first contact between two people is a handshake．Bethe first to extend your hand in greeting．Couple this with a friendly "Hello", a nice smile, and yourname and you have made the first step to open the lines of communication．

Eye contact should be natural, not forced or overdone．Direct eye contact shows you are listen-ing to the other person and that you want to know about her．

A person smiles to show__________． 查看材料

A.he is kind and useful

B.he is happy all the time

C.he is ready to talk with you

D.he sees something funny

Why do we go wrong about our friends--or our enemies？ Sometimes what people say hides their real meaning.And if we don't really listen, we miss the feeling behind the words.Suppose someone tells you, "you're a lucky dog".Is he really on your side？ If he says, "You're a lucky guy" or "You're a lucky gal", that's being friendly.But "lucky dog"？ There's a bit of envy in those words.Maybe he doesn't see it himself.But bringing in the "dog" bit puts you down a little.What he may be saying is that he doesn't think you deserve your luck.

How can you tell the real meaning behind someone's words？ One way is to take a good look at the person talking.Do his words fit the way he looks？ Does what he says square with the tone of voice？ His posture (体态)？ The look in his eyes？ Stop and think.The minute you spend thinking about the real meaning of what people say to you may save another mistake.

1.From the questions in the first paragraph we can learn that tile speaker ().

A.feels happy, thinking of how nice his friends were to him

B.feels he may not have "read" his friends' true feelings correctly

C.thinks it was a mistake to have broken up with his girl friend, Helen

D.is sorry that his friends let him down

2.In the second paragraph, the author uses the example of "You're a lucky dog" to showthat ().

A.the speaker of this sentence is just being friendly

B.this saying means the same as "You're a lucky guy' or "You're a lucky gal"

C.sometimes the words used by a speaker give a clue to the feeling behind the words

D.the word "dog" shouldn't be used to apply to people

3.This passage tries to tell you how to ().

A.avoid mistakes about money and friends

B.bring the "dog" bit into our conversation

C.avoid mistakes in understanding what people tell you

D.keep people friendly without trusting them

4.In listening to a person, the important thing is ().

A.to notice his tone, his posture, and the look in his eyes

B.to listen to how he pronounces his words

C.to check his words against his manner, his tone of voice, and his posture

D.not to believe what he says

5.If you followed the advice of the writer, you would ().

A.be able to get the real meaning of what people say to you

B.avoid any mistakes while talking with people who envy you

C.not lose real friends who say things that do not please you

D.be able to observe people as they are talking to you

Why do we go wrong about our friends--or our enemies？ Sometimes what people say hides their real meaning.And if we don't really listen, we miss the feeling behind the words.Suppose someone tells you, "you're a lucky dog".Is he really on your side？ If he says, "You're a lucky guy" or "You're a lucky gal", that's being friendly.But "lucky dog"？ There's a bit of envy in those words.Maybe he doesn't see it himself.But bringing in the "dog" bit puts you down a little.What he may be saying is that he doesn't think you deserve your luck.

How can you tell the real meaning behind someone's words？ One way is to take a good look at the person talking.Do his words fit the way he looks？ Does what he says square with the tone of voice？ His posture (体态)？ The look in his eyes？ Stop and think.The minute you spend thinking about the real meaning of what people say to you may save another mistake.

1.From the questions in the first paragraph we can learn that tile speaker _____.

A.feels happy, thinking of how nice his friends were to him

B.feels he may not have "read" his friends' true feelings correctly

C.thinks it was a mistake to have broken up with his girl friend, Helen

D.is sorry that his friends let him down

2.In the second paragraph, the author uses the example of "You're a lucky dog" to show that __________.

A.the speaker of this sentence is just being friendly

B.this saying means the same as "You're a lucky guy' or "You're a lucky gal"

C.sometimes the words used by a speaker give a clue to the feeling behind the words

D.the word "dog" shouldn't be used to apply to people

3.This passage tries to tell you how to __________.

A.avoid mistakes about money and friends

B.bring the "dog" bit into our conversation

C.avoid mistakes in understanding what people tell you

D.keep people friendly without trusting them

4.In listening to a person, the important thing is __________.

A.to notice his tone, his posture, and the look in his eyes

B.to listen to how he pronounces his words

C.to check his words against his manner, his tone of voice, and his posture

D.not to believe what he says

5.If you followed the advice of the writer, you would __________.

A.be able to get the real meaning of what people say to you

B.avoid any mistakes while talking with people who envy you

C.not lose real friends who say things that do not please you

D.be able to observe people as they are talking to you

A.with

B.to

C.in

A.You will only blur the issue by saying that.

B.You will only confuse the issue by saying that.

C.You will only understand the issue well by saying that.

D.You will only know the issue by saying that.

阅读理解：阅读下面的短文，根据文章内容进行判断，正确写“T”错误写“F”。

USE THESE 5 (OF 10) TIPS TO START YOUR EVENT PLANNING CAREER

STEP 1 – Get experience and volunteer your time in different event services. There are so many aspects of events including, working for a graduation event, a sports competition, volunteering for nonprofits, and working for an established event planner. Your long-term success in event planning will be based on the experience you had.Make sure you have some solid skills in:

* Verbal and written communications

* Organization and time management

* Negotiation and budget management

* Creativity, marketing, public relations and more

STEP 2 – Move into a position with some responsibility. Instead of just volunteering, become the fundraising chair for a nonprofit, become a catering manager, or take on a lead-planning role at an event planning company.

STEP 3 – Are you familiar with the saying, “it’s not what you know, but who you know”？ In event planning, networking is key! Wherever you go, collect contact information for the people you meet.

STEP 4 – Create an event album. Showcase your work with photos, booklets, and invitations of the events you’ve worked on. Organize each piece in a book to easily present your experience and event stories. Most people are visual so paint the picture for them!

STEP 5 – While you’re gaining valuable event planning experience, you can also become a certified event planner. Join some training and try to get planner certification from some institutions. It’s also helpful to keep up with industry trends and establish contacts within the industry.

1. You can plan a success event if you have experience.{T、F}

2. You will move into a position with some responsibility only through volunteering.{T、F}

3. Networking is the key to event planning.{T、F}

4. Create an event album means taking photos in the event.{T、F}

5. You can become a certified event planner as well when you gain valuable event planning experience.{T、F}